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Lately it has been
me, me, me on my blog which is something that literary giant Marcel Proust would abhor. And even though I vowed to take his
lessons of living to heart in my recent post, I could not resist sharing with you an amusing parlour game that Proust used to play with his friends after a dinner party.
Vanity Fair has an
online version of this game in which you answer the questions and your answers are matched to celebrities. But if you'd rather just play with me, here are the questions and my answers. I strongly advise drinking a glass of wine or two before you play!
1. What is your idea of perfect happiness?
A weekend away with my husband in Paris or London2. What is your greatest fear?
Dying of Parkinson's disease in which I am trapped inside the prison of my body, like my father did and like my mother soon will 3. Which historical figure do you most identify with?
Marie Antoinette4. Which living person do you most admire?
Artist Cindy Sherman because she took what she feared the most and made a career out of it5. What is the trait you most deplore in yourself?
A desire for validation of my work6. What is the trait you most deplore in others?
Lack of manners7. What is your greatest extravagence?
Fashion and books8. On what occasion do you lie?
To avoid hurting someone's feelings9. What do you dislike most about your appearance?
My hair10. When and where were you happiest?
In this moment11. If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
To have more self confidence about my work12. If you could change one thing about your family what would it be?
That we saw each other more often13. What do you consider your greatest achievement?
Learning to find joy within the moment even through difficult times14. If you died and came back as a person or thing, what do you think it would be?
A tree15. What is your most treasured possession?
Photos of my husband and boys16. What do you regard as the lowest depths of misery?
Time spent with people who complain17. Who are your heroes in real life?
My husband18. What is it that you most dislike?
Lack of courtesy 19. How would you like to die?
In my sleep20. What is your motto?
This too shall passIn the online
Vanity Fair version, my answers most closely matched Joan Didion (88%), author of the book
The Year of Magical Thinking
. I was a little surprised by this at first, but then I read a reviewer's comments about my show
All is Vanity.Among the myriad of associations elicited by your images was Joan Didion's 'The Year of Magical Thinking' (written by Didion following the death of her husband and daughter). Ingrid's images are a true interpretation of the magical thinking we all experience following the loss of someone dear to us. The images resonate and to me, are universal. (To read DF Krouskie's entire review, read the loop gallery blog
here.)
If you do the survey, please share your answers!